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15 Italian Eating Habits That Shock American Tourists

By: kseniaprints · Updated: Nov 21, 2024 · This post may contain affiliate links.

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Italian eating habits can be quite different from what American tourists are used to, often leading to surprising cultural experiences. For example, Italians typically eat dinner much later than Americans, rarely drink cappuccinos after breakfast, and have different ideas about portion sizes and the role of salad in a meal. These customs are deeply ingrained in Italian culture and reflect the country's rich culinary history.

While these differences can be charming, they can also lead to confusion. This list of 15 Italian eating habits that shock American tourists highlights some of the most noticeable differences, from the timing of meals to the order in which dishes are served. Being unaware of these customs can lead to awkward moments, so it's best to be prepared. By learning about these customs before traveling, travelers can avoid cultural misunderstandings and fully enjoy their dining experiences. Remember, part of the joy of travel is experiencing new ways of life, and food is an essential part of that experience.

A person holds a plate of spaghetti topped with tomato sauce and basil, embodying a slice of Italian culture. Below, the table brims with vegetables, herbs, and seasonings, inviting American visitors to explore traditional Italian eating habits in this vibrant cooking setting.
Introduction. Photo credit: 123RF.

Late Dinner Times

Three American visitors are dining at a wooden table, savoring Italian cuisine: pasta paired with two glasses of red wine. A lit candle enhances the cozy, casual atmosphere that highlights the joy of food and conversation.
Late Dinner Times. Photo credit: DepositPhotos.

Italians typically eat dinner much later than Americans, often starting around 8 or 9 PM. This can be challenging for visitors used to earlier mealtimes. The late dinner is part of a lifestyle that includes a longer workday with an extended lunch break. Adjusting to this schedule can take time, but it allows for a more relaxed evening meal and social gathering.

No Cappuccino After Breakfast

No Cappuccino After Breakfast. Photo credit: Pexels.

Ordering a cappuccino after 11 AM is considered strange in Italy. Italians believe milk-based coffees are only for breakfast. After meals, they prefer espresso or macchiato. This habit is rooted in the belief that milk interferes with digestion. Visitors might receive odd looks if they order a cappuccino with or after lunch.

Bread Without Butter

A round loaf of bread partially wrapped in a cloth sits on a cutting board. In the background, slices and other loaves are nestled in wicker baskets, displaying Italian eating habits that might shock American visitors. A butter knife rests beside the bread on the board.
Bread Without Butter. Photo credit: 123RF.

Italian restaurants typically serve bread without butter or olive oil. Bread is used to fare la scarpetta, or "make the little shoe," which means sopping up sauce left on the plate. Adding butter to bread is seen as unnecessary and may alter the flavors of the meal. This can be surprising for Americans used to having butter in their bread basket.

Pasta as a First Course

A white square plate with a serving of pesto pasta, topped with small cheese cubes and pine nuts, embodies true Italian cuisine. A fresh basil sprig garnishes the dish. The plate is elegantly set on a dark wooden table, inviting American visitors to savor an authentic taste of Italy.
Pasta as a First Course. Photo credit: 123RF.

In Italy, pasta is often served as a first course (primo piatto) rather than a main dish. It's followed by a second course of meat or fish (secondo piatto). This meal structure can be confusing for Americans used to pasta as a main course. The portions are typically smaller than what Americans might expect, allowing for a multi-course meal.

No Cheese on Seafood Pasta

A plate of seafood pasta is topped with mussels, shrimp, and clams in a tomato-based sauce. Garnished with parsley, the dish is served on a white plate with a fork to the side—a delicious introduction for American visitors to authentic Italian eating habits.
No Cheese on Seafood Pasta. Photo credit: 123RF.

Italians have a strong aversion to adding cheese to seafood pasta dishes. This rule is taken seriously and can shock American visitors who might be used to sprinkling Parmesan on all pasta dishes. The belief is that cheese overpowers the delicate flavors of seafood. Asking for cheese on a seafood pasta dish might earn you a disapproving look from your server.

Eating Pizza with a Knife and Fork

A close-up of a pizza, showcasing the essence of Italian cuisine with toppings like black olives, fresh parsley, tomatoes, and melted cheese. A fork and knife are poised over the pizza, inviting American visitors to experience true Italian eating habits as they prepare to slice it.
Eating Pizza with a Knife and Fork. Photo credit: YayImages.

While Americans often eat pizza with their hands, Italians typically use a knife and fork. This is especially true for traditional Neapolitan-style pizza, which can be quite soft in the center. Using utensils is seen as more elegant and allows for a slower, more enjoyable eating experience. It's not uncommon to see Italians carefully cutting their pizza into bite-sized pieces.

Salad After the Main Course

A wooden bowl containing a vibrant Italian salad with arugula, sliced cherry tomatoes, and lettuce leaves sits gracefully on a wooden table with a brown cloth underneath, inviting American visitors to savor the authentic taste of Italian food.
Salad After the Main Course. Photo credit: 123RF.

In Italy, salad is often served after the main course, not before or with it. This is believed to aid digestion and cleanse the palate. For American visitors used to salad as a starter, this order can feel backwards. The salad is usually simple, dressed only with olive oil and vinegar, allowing diners to appreciate the fresh ingredients.

Standing for Coffee

A person in a striped shirt holds a white mug with one hand, reminiscent of an Italian morning ritual. The blurred background draws attention to the mug and the lower part of the person’s torso, inviting curiosity from American visitors eager to explore authentic Italian culture.
Standing for Coffee. Photo credit: 123RF.

Italians often drink their espresso quickly while standing at the bar. This habit can surprise Americans used to lingering over large cups of coffee. Standing for coffee is cheaper than sitting at a table and is seen as a quick energy boost rather than a leisurely activity. It's common to see Italians chatting briefly at the

Peeling Fruit

A person in a green shirt expertly peels a red apple with a small knife, embodying Italian dining customs. The focus is on the hands and the apple, reminiscent of the meticulous care seen in traditional Italian eating habits.
Peeling Fruit. Photo credit: 123RF.

Many Italians peel fruits like apples and pears before eating them. This habit stems from concerns about pesticides and a preference for a smoother texture. It can seem overly cautious to American visitors. Even fruits with edible skins, like peaches, are often peeled. This meticulous approach to fruit preparation is part of the Italian attention to food quality and presentation.

No Doggy Bags

A table showcases two bowls of salad, a few slices of bread, and a glass of white wine, capturing Italian eating habits. Behind them is a large brown paper bag. A dark curtain drapes the background.
No Doggy Bags. Photo credit: 123RF.

The concept of taking leftover food home is uncommon in Italy. Restaurants may not offer or may even be offended if asked for a doggy bag. This stems from the belief that meals should be fresh and enjoyed in the moment. For Americans used to large portions and taking leftovers home, this can be a surprising and potentially wasteful practice.

Drinking Water with Meals

A person holds a clear glass of water at a dining table, embodying traditional Italian eating habits. In the background, plates with food items, including sliced tomatoes, showcase the vibrant meal in progress—a scene that might intrigue and delight American visitors.
Drinking Water with Meals. Photo credit: Pexels.

While Americans often start with water at restaurants, Italians typically order bottled water – either still or sparkling. Tap water is rarely served unless specifically requested. This habit is partly due to regional water quality concerns and partly cultural preference. The type of water chosen often complements the meal and wine selection.

Limited Menu Modifications

A woman sits at a table in a restaurant, holding a menu and smiling at a standing waiter who is pouring tea from a glass teapot. The setting, warmly lit with decorative elements, captures the charm that often surprises American visitors unfamiliar with Italian eating habits.
Limited Menu Modifications. Photo credit: 123RF.

Italians have a strong respect for traditional recipes and may be reluctant to modify dishes upon request. This can be frustrating for Americans used to customizing their orders. Asking for substitutions or alterations might be met with resistance or even refusal. The philosophy is that dishes are crafted to be enjoyed as they are traditionally prepared.

Avoiding Ice in Drinks

A glass is being filled with a fizzy, brown carbonated beverage on a white wooden surface. Mid-pour, it creates bubbles and foam at the top. Sunlight casts a shadow, adding a warm glow—a picture perfect for American visitors savoring Italian cuisine with refreshing flair.
Avoiding Ice in Drinks. Photo credit: DepositPhotos.

Italians generally don't use ice in their drinks, including water and soft drinks. This can be surprising for Americans used to ice-cold beverages. The belief is that very cold drinks are bad for digestion and that they mask the flavors of the beverage. Even in summer, you'll find most drinks served chilled but without ice.

Breakfast is Sweet and Light

A cup of black coffee rests on a white saucer beside two chocolate croissants, evoking the shock American visitors often feel when learning about leisurely Italian eating habits. Scattered coffee beans complete the scene on a dark slate surface.
Breakfast is Sweet and Light. Photo credit: YayImages.

Italian breakfast is typically sweet and light, often just a coffee and a pastry. This can be a shock for Americans used to hearty, savory breakfasts. The concept of eggs and bacon for breakfast is virtually non-existent in Italy. Italians prefer to save their appetite for a larger lunch or dinner.

Alcohol with Food, Not Without

Four people clink glasses of beer above a wooden table adorned with a pepperoni pizza, celebrating Italian cuisine in a casual gathering. The scene effortlessly blends Italian eating habits with the joy of sharing food and drinks, capturing the spirit that even American visitors relish.
Alcohol with Food, Not Without. Photo credit: DepositPhotos.

In Italy, alcohol is almost always consumed with food. Drinking without eating is uncommon and sometimes frowned upon. This applies to wine, beer, and even cocktails. The concept of "happy hour" with just drinks is relatively new and still not widespread. Italians believe that alcohol should complement the food and enhance the dining experience.

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